I want to sloppy slap the world!!!

Monday, May 01, 2006

Love and lust are inextricably intertwined. Lust is ground zero for hormones, it's nature's way of bringing people together to "mate" or as Trent would say "fuck like animals." In fact, without lust, it's doubtful that love between humans would have a chance to prosper at all. The driving force of the sexual imperative bridges the gap between the almost incompatible brain styles of the two sexes. So lust can be seen as one end of the broad continuum, which may or may not involve actual romance. Plain and simple; "Men fight wars over lust, but they make homes and families for love."

For men, lust is a strange experience; the brain goes on hold and red-hot surges of testosterone run the show. Lust, like love, is truly blind. This is why, especially at the beginning of a relationship, it can be hard to tell whether you're in lust or love; whether he may be "The One," or merely a passing fancy who'll have your blood boiling for only a short while. This is because men are perfectly capable of engaging in sex before they forge emotional bonds. These raging hormones can easily disguise themselves as feelings of love. The real danger is that both lust and love can rob a man of his natural strength and/or defenses. Then it's all too easy to hand his male power over for sex-ploitation .

This has actually taken me a very long time to realize and be able to express in the proper wording so that people can know exactly what I mean. I have realized "Im a lover not a fighter" doesnt apply to me; rather "Im a luster not a lover." I always wondered why I got bored with relationships and only thing that would keep me involved was great sex. Well maybe one day the right person will change my ways. Oh well what is a guy to do?